Most Helpful Girl
I'm in different about this mainly because I'm a girl with a past. But I do judge others from their past or at least factor in some things for prospective so understandable.
At the same time the age 18-24, not saying her behavior is right or justified but it sounds like typical college behavior. Most college students have serious relationships and get married eventually. So I wouldn't rule her out completely.
If it worries you just talk about it..
I anything would was just say it's a phase.
I mean when I came to college, I didn't party for a year or drink, virgin, no random make outs. By age 19 second - third month into my 2nd year. I probably has drunk myself into 2 near hospitalization experiences, made out with nearly 10 guys and almost lost my virginty to some rando. I partied religiously and it wasn't a secret it was all over my social media, that was at 19. By age 21, partying is a rare occasion. I've had a total of 3 drinks this year, I was almost completely sober for age 20 and I haven't picked up any random guys since last year. I've managed to hang onto what's left of my virginity...
^^^ just a phase
Plus "she parties harder than you" ..
Implying that you do party
Are you really going to hold that against her...
Most Helpful Guy
If the past really matters that much to you then maybe not. People do change so while her past is questionable it i snot a reflection of who she is presently or who she will be in the future. Yes it can be worrisome, but if she has put that behind her and does not do that anymore then maybe try to forget? A questionable past does not always mean the character is completely shot. She could have done that stuff, but still have great character