this especially applies to if they are/were good friend
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Generally speaking, if they're a friend, I feel really guilty and hope they're not too hurt. That they confessed is impressive, but regardless, if I've decided not to even give the guy a chance, there's probably a good reason. Not necessarily a character flaw, but an incompatibility.
I'll also worry he won't want to be friends anymore, that things will get awkward, or that I led him on somehow. :/0