So I've been talking to this guy for a while, and it's getting to be the time where the whole first kiss thing happens... The thing is, my first kiss was about three weeks ago with another guy i was talking to. It felt totally platonic. not really a spark. The thing is, while i like this guy, there's not the whole "butterflies" and I"m not sure if i want to kiss him. but if he tries, im not going to reject him. I just don't know what to do, and i don't want him to think I'm a bad kisser. All tips welcome, thanks!
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I'm assuming this is with tongue. Don't force yourself. If you're not into it, don't do it. I've regretted a few kisses---I was drunk and my friend let me make out with this fat unattractive guy...
My self-esteem was at an all time low for 2 minutes and I almost threw up. But then I got over it.
Avoid this. Don't do it if you don't want to. Just turn your head or push him away.1