Most Helpful Girl
Hell no! High standards ALL THE WAY, baby! Lift the bar before you let anyone jump it. You are the new evolutionary standard. Or better. Only exception to this high standard rule is not to expect a standard higher than you are yourself. Eg, I know people who are not very physically fit or attractive or whatever quality it is, who insist they want someone who is super-gorgeous or successful or intelligent or whatever it is that they are not. They don't seem to realise this is hypocritical and that the person they want, who is top-notch, is going to have high standards too. You have depth. Go for someone to match.
Most Helpful Guy
Are you wanting to find a girlfriend who you will be proud to introduce to your Mom or are you content with a girl who will hold you hand and kiss you right now? (But, next week, she'll be holding somebody else's hand and kissing them.)