A women can be unconfident, socially awkward and still have a good chance to date and/or marry, but if a guy is this way, his chances of dating are slim to none. Guys who aren't confident super social guru's are expected to "find" it. They are treated as its "buried deep within them".
- Because guys are biologically expected to be confident social gurusVote A
- Because its a stigma placed on men to be confident, always optimistic way more than womenVote B
Most Helpful Girl
That isn't true. Insecure girls have a hard time as well. Simply because insecure people are hard to deal with.
And I don't expect a guy to be 'super social guru's'. Don't make up shit.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
women don't make a move, more likely they as I like to say "they use 'the force'," to mind will guys into liking them and make the guy understand all the 'signals the girls think they are sending. Girls always have an agenda with guys, and believe that the guy they are into doesn't like them because they didn't talk to them or didn't do what they assume is normal or socially acceptable. social acceptability is made up bullshit. girls want this, girls want that, but guys aren't allowed to ask for anything, but a nice girl... well whatever that's how I feel right now0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE