I'm seeing a girl right now.
She told me she was in an unhealthy relationship in the very beginning and that they are about to break up.
She did also say I'm the type of guy she was looking for and that we share a lot of common interests that not many people are into.
I can't say much, but it's been about a week since we've been talking everyday and she always mentions about her bad boyfriend at some point of our conversation. We did meet twice in rl though. First at a plaza, and second at her place.
I mean we both kinda agree to stay as friends for now till their relationship is over which is very likely to occur very soon. However when I met her for the 2nd time at her place, I felt she kinda treated me like a friend not a potential one. She was touching my nose, lips, etc .. She was very close to my face at one point, but I really didn't feel any sexual intensity on her facial expression. I felt like as if I'm her very close girl friend. At the same time, she mentioned about her terrible boyfriend and how she wants to be with "other guys", she didn't say it was me.
TBH, I don't really know what her intention of talking trash about her boyfriend is..
I feel like a goddamn emotional tampon. Yet again, she seems very interested in me as she is the one usually text me first. Uh... so confused =_=
If this continues for another week, I'm done with her really..
Most Helpful Girl
She's using you for therapy.0
Most Helpful Guy
You seem to be her plan B and wants to keep her options open.
I don't think a healthy relationship can start that way, she is deceptive and should not be trusted. I wouldn't be surprised if she had more "friends" like you she can bla bla about her problems.1