I am really getting upset, because of my love life. I had my first boyfriend a year ago and broke up, because my feelings for him had faded. After this my requirements changed completely. I don't want to commit to a relationship that doesn't give me what I need, because I am willing to give a lot, too. I met a few guys since then and nobody of them fit my needs and wishes. Recently I drank a coffee with a guy who is actually very nice and decent, but nonetheless I don't feel very attracted. That certain chemistry seems to miss.
Okay, let me tell you what I look for in a guy. I want to meet a nice guy with whom I can connect on an intellectual and emotional level. I want to be swept away by him and fall in love. I want a nice chemistry and attraction. I want to meet a guy that allows me to have great conversation with him.
I am 18 years old and I never really fell in love. I don't want to "waste time" with a relationship that is not connected with love, because I don't see the point.
Am I ruining my love life, because I look for too much? I kind of have the feeling that the right person is out there for me. I am afraid to settle for less just because I get impatient. I feel like love is the most essential aspect of a relationship. Am I wrong?
Please help me.
Take care and thanks! :)
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As long as you are every bit what you ask for in a guy, I don't see the problem.
Careful though, spend time looking for a unicorn all your life, and you're gonna end up alone. If the wait is worth it for you, then don't compromise. This is a decision that you and only you alone can answer for yourself.