On a personal note, I have 2 young children already and I do want more some day. Dating is a pain, I'm not going to just let anyone come into my life and unfortunately the guys I've met went running for the hills and the others were so sucked into the "hot milf" thing, that they couldn't even see what they'd be getting into other than having "milf" sex. So I want to know what do you guys think of single mommy's? Would you be turned off by the post baby body? Would you be comfortable being a father figure/ positive male role model to another man's children?
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There are a lot of single moms out there and I have no interest in them. I have tried dating them and they never seem to have their situations straight. Many are on state assistance with no desire to be truly independent and they have ranted to me very quickly about their court battles and such. It is one thing if she was married and the father had a civil breakup but it would need to be something like a five year marriage fallen apart. None of this Vegas marriage and breakup 2 months later nonsense.
Having two kids and wanting more is gonna be real rough for you. Im sure there is some guy out there that will be willing to but don't expect to find him without doing some serious searching.