When she talks to me she flirts but then when I start flirting she goes cold. Does she want me to chase her or is she just not interested I dont get it.
Most Helpful Girl
She's bored with you. Actually I think it's the other way around when people say she wants you to chase her. Some girls actually love the challenge of getting an attractive guy to like her without any intentions of moving on to anything. You said that whenever you flirt back, she pulls away. That's a sign. Pull back as well and I'm sure she'll push on to you more. Just like her pics but don't comment on anything, delay on answering her messages.
Most Helpful Guy
You need to make a serious move. She's really flirty sometimes to show you what it could be like then taking it away, in the hope you'll chase after it. Since you haven't really made a move she's getting more and more discouraged