But now I'm in that thing where do I let him take the lead and wait for him to message me etc... the chase or whatever?
Or do i message him first? Initate conversations?
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Do what feels right and fair.
You can usually actually feel when you are sucking up to someone and they aren't treating you well.
Equally, you can feel when you're refraining from taking the initiative because you're scared of the consequences.
Be brave, but don't be a sucker.