People always argue and say that since the guy makes the first move, does the approaching and asking out, is the initiator, takes the lead, etc. That means he is the one in charge, in control, but i got this quote, statement from a woman who is a matchmaker, dating coach, and yes she is like 99% of women who adamantly, stubbornly insist that the man be the initiator, primary pursuer, approaching and asking out, but she says this quote:
"All the decisions and power lies where the woman sets the boundaries by saying “yes” or “no” to things. It’s the woman that sets the pace, sets the parameters, and dictates how she will be treated and looked at by the man (for instance, are you a casual play-thing or relationship/girlfriend material?) This is all up to the woman, and the woman has the most control via means of her “influence.” A misconception is to view it the other way. The core of power does not come from the one who is initiating (the man)."
Do you agree or disagree with what she said? i want to agree with her, because after all, if things don't go past the first or second date, it's usually because the girl, not the guy, that ended up losing interest, lost attraction, thats not to say it can happen in which the man loses interest, attraction, i'm sure it does happen that way occasionally but more often than not i feel it's because the woman, not the man, that ended up losing interest.
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seriously, why can't more people accept that this is reality?0