really wantto ask this girl out. anxiety and doubt makes it hard. but even if we do go out i dont know if i could keep up a relationship. i hate going to bars resturants etc. thought of meeting her friends and family and them judging me. blah
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Oh my gosh I am a super anxious person when it comes to me leaving the house or new people coming over. Like we won't go into all the thought that goes into an outing D:
Basically it's like taking of a bandaid or getting in the water. If you go slow and think about everything you do it hurts or it's super cold! But, if you just go for it the worst part is over right away and you can get on with your day. So you get out and try new things and they'll be scary at first, but it will get easier super fast and you'll have a great time!
If you're having a hard time dealing with the struggle of getting over that first plunge it's a good opportunity to look into therapy and/or medication. It can really make a positive impact in your life :)
Either way it sounds like you have some fun opportunities ahead of you!1