If so, what made you dislike him then change your mind?
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Yes, my ex husband I couldn't stand. All the girls wanted to get with him, and he seemed like an attention whore. I thought I got to know him, and I loved him for who I thought he was, he manipulated me badly. I still love the person I thought he was, the guy that came out when he was not sleeping around on me, or looking for acceptance from the entire local populace. I dated a cocky man, I couldn't stand his voice, the sex was great, until he got way too kinky for me in bed, like fetish kinky, I lost the attraction quickly. Another guy I couldn't stand was really really whiney, he kind of reminded me of a baby when he talked, so naive and immature. I started dating him because he was COMPLETELY different from my ex's, so I figured I'd try something different and see what it was like to date him. He was very kind sometimes, and then reminded me of a toddler most of the time. I loved him, but couldn't stand his whining anymore, he would whine about how he wanted to marry me, and it was cute, but that he didn't want to buy a ring, or propose, or have a thought out wedding. I stopped wasting my time. Every guy I've dated bar one, I haven't liked at first, but every relationship I've had, I took something good away from. The one relationship I was in where I liked the guy right off the bat was amazing, the only three things that weren't right were that he smoked cigarettes, he once told me he was rich, and made his money as a high end drug lord (unconfirmed), and he was cheating on me... a lot. I kicked him to the curb quicker than the rest of them.0