But when would you?
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When I was younger the answer may have been different, but now I can adamantly say I wait until I know we are both on the same page regarding the relationship and when I feel like I can trust that person. When I know that if sex is awkward or somehow embarrassing, we can both laugh it off and go with it. Definitely not before I've become comfortable with that person enough to stand there naked. Depending on the person and the relationship and how often I see them/know them, this can be anywhere from a minimum of 4 or 5 dates upwards of a dozen or more. So many times I've reached a couple months in with a guy and realized they were totally wrong for me. Better to walk away from that before sex is involved. I have a handy little thing called a dildo to keep me happy until that point...0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE