Met this girl last year online. We met a few times maybe 3-4 times. Things seemed to go well in terms of us just flowing and geling well.
In the end, I told her I wanted to push for more.. I don't know if she got the wrong message or what. But I never heard from her, so I decided to drop her and move on.
Now about 6-7 months later on my birthday she send me a message on FB. She says she wants to catch up... I thought maybe this was a chance to see if anything changes.
I met her and we had a fun time catching up and talking. I swear, it was as if we took it from where we left off... nothing had changed. She felt the same way too.. we just gel so well together.
So I ask her out for another event and we spend half of the day this weekend together. We had dinner, where our convo's got intense.
I asked her if she was single, she basically said she feels like she doesn't want a relationship right now.
I then told her how I can read her so well. So she said read me... I basically told her how she felt at different parts of the day.
She looked at me smiled and said.. wow.. you're spot on. She held her hand under her chin, looked into my eyes and stared with a smile. I felt like she was actually thinking of us, I mean I kept throwing hints out at her.
In the end, she paid for dinner and our cab home.
I haven't texted her back yet, even though she texted me to see if I made it home.
I feel so confused right now. I think she sees me as a friend now. What do I do? Do I just tell her how I feel? I've dated a lot the past 2 months, and I could find NO woman that I just feel so comfortable with.
But with her... it's like everything is calm and cool. She can understand and appreciate my sarcastic dry humour. And even throws some right back at me. I guess for once I feel so lost... It's like I want to tell her, but I feel she made it clear she wants to stay single even though she can see that we would be perfect together.