I feel like a lot of people on here say you can't judge others by their past, and while that is true, to me you are the culmination of your past.
I understand others enjoy ONSs and that is fine, but I never have liekd the idea. I found out my current girlfriend of three months has had about half a dozen and I just can't get over that... I know I shouldn't be upset as she says she really likes me and we have some of the best sex she has ever had, but I just can't stop imagining her being so carefree with sex when for me, it is fairly important to me, especially by today's standards.
Either way, do you think I have the right to want someone wiht the same views of sex as I do? I feel like many women on here just attack guys that won't accept women regardless of their sexual pasts.
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When she was doing her ONSs was it when she had a boyfriend? If she was cheating then to me that would be too much. Maybe she just had a very low self esteem and needed someone there and she figured sex was the only was then realized it wasen't and kept that pattern going.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE