BQ: Guys, If your girlfriend was going to surprise kiss you out of nowhere how would you want her to do it?
Most Helpful Guy
Well 14 is pretty early for a first kiss but anyways. Ok so the first thing is that the moment has to be right. If u do at the wrong time it will make it awkward. The right time is whenever u feel like u want to kiss him and him as well. Dont rush into it or do it out of the blue either. It can still be a surprise but u build up to it. By that i mean u first have soft puppy eyes that say u want him. U speak slowly, softly and smoothly and create an atmosphere with a lot of tension. Good tension. Have solid eye contact and look like u want to be kissed. I would let him lean in, but if u want to then u can do that too. Tilt ur head to the right slightly so u dont clash noses. Lol. And start off slow and sensual and then build up the intensity if u want to go there. Do whatever feels natural cos a kiss is all about feeling. Make sure ur lips are soft and not dry. Have good breath also. Ur hands can also explore his body by holding his head or shoulders or anywhere where u feel comfortable. This is just a start and there is heaps more info u can learn. Hope this helps a little.
Most Helpful Girl
I was scared for years about kissing and only until recently I managed to kind of let go of the technicalities and just enjoy the moment for what it is (keep in mind I'm 17 and I had my first kiss at 11). If you think about it too much you are bound to mess it up. Just follow his lead, trust your instincts and it will come naturally to you. Just make sure you a) don't stick your tongue down his throat, b) try not to use teeth and c) get out of your own head and just enjoy it. Start with a peck and then slightly part your lips. Hope it all goes well!