I started seeing this guy VERY recently, like a week ago. And already, some drama has come up. Now normally, I won't put up with that, but it's the way it is that is making me kinda unsure.
So I've had my eye on this guy for some time, and FINALLY he asked me out. But it turns out, that another girl liked him also.
Well, this other girl is apparently very bitter that he decided to go with me instead of her, so she rallied up all her friends, and they have waged a war against both me and my boyfriend.
I think they are harder on him then me, they certainly pester him more, so it isn't even like he's just letting it happen.
There is 6 of them, and they keep harrassing me and him. Every day I wake up to about a hundred billion messages from them, saying things like
"You're a whore"
"I hope you get murdered and raped"
Just some pretty brutal things. And I've seen the stuff they message him, they do it to him more then me, and the words aren't AS brutal, it's mostly just calling him an asshole, and a idiot and what not.
I've tried to block them on face book, but they just make new accounts, it's absolute insanity! I really don't respond to them, I did like the first two days then kinda gave up.
My feelings aren't hurt by them at all, and I doubt my boyfriend's are either, but it's just very stressful to deal with that, and then they blow up my wall with it, and whenever I see them they make a point to stand directly in front of me so I can't see anyone (because I'm short) and say some pretty crude and brutal things to my face, and laugh at me.
It's just soo much drama, I really do like him, and don't want to lose him because THEY have attitudes, but I have another friend who says I just give it up...
- Yeah, dump him
- No, don't leave him
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Sorry to hear about all of this hun:( but if he's the one (which why would you ever date someone that you don't want to spend the rest of your life with?) you'll go through some pretty rough times together, and it just so happens that your time is now!
Best of luck! :)
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