I often hear that you have to be confident to get a woman. I have never been confident and I've done quite well in dating. Every woman that I ever dated I never thought that I would get her when I approached her. I'm not loaded with money so I know money's not the reason . I never use pick up lines, wingmen, etc. and despite all of the women I ever dated, I never thought I would have a chance with them. I have asked women I dated why they said yes to me and none of them ever said anything about confidence personality which left me shocked because I thought that's what a guy had to have. So does that mean only certain guys have to be confident? Or is this confident or this widely believed notion false?
Most Helpful Girl
Well, when people talk about guys being confident, it doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be completely confident, confident all of the time, or confident in every area in your life. Everyone has insecurities.
But you were, apparently, confident enough to approach women, to talk to them, and, I'm assuming, to more-or-less be yourself around them.0
Most Helpful Guy
Confidence matters, but u gotta have the right social skills for the culture of the girls in your region.
The culture of the girls in said area isn't talked about much, but that may be the missing piece for your success!0