The thing is that he contacts me, but I have a feeling that he is doing it just to keep the conversation going, out of obligation. I want to help him and give him some support so I wanted to send hm a text where I will tell him that I don't expect him to contact me out of obligation, that I know lots of things are going on in his life and appreciate he was honest with me. And if there is any way how can I help him or support him, I'm happy to do so..
What do you think? Does it sound clingy? I don't want to push him away nor make an impression that texting me is an obligation..
Should I send this text?
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GIRL, I was in this SAME exact situation!! Everything was great, he initiated most conversations, we had our first kiss, etc. After that, he said the timing was bad, family issues, work was crazy, blah, blah, blah. I tried the supportive thing. I told him, "If you need to talk to anyone with everything going on, etc. I'll be here for you." I was thinking, I'm being supportive and trying to stand by his side so he'll appreciate me for that. No, he told me I was smothering him at that point and that I needed to stop pressuring him. WHICH, I NEVER DID! But, I think that was his way of saying he didn't want to try this anymore.