Most Helpful Girl
I think the whole girls go after bad boys thing is a myth, I've never met anyone who would actually choose a druggie or partier over a nice guy. I believe girls do like someone confident though, so maybe just try to be more outgoing? Or maybe they believe you don't like them?
Most Helpful Guy
I was in the same boat some years ago. Most women will throw you into the friend zone if you don't ask them out within two weeks of meeting them no matter how nice and sweet you are to them. A lot of times they will assume your gay or you have self confidence issues. Your obviously not gay but it sounds like you're waiting too long and that's why you have a friend whose a girl instead of a girlfriend. Bite the bullet. Throw caution to the wind and let her know you're interested. Don't wait. Women like to be pursued by confident guys. Once I learned to play the game everything changed and it was awesome... Just my opinion based on experience bro... Good luck.