Girls, upon first meeting a guy what do you want? What will have to happen in order for him to get your number?
What Girls Said 10
Absolutely 'so-so' looks are enough, as you put it. If a man has a certain draw for me (a vibe, if you will) and is confident and kind, strikes up a good conversation, sometimes I just have a gut feeling and will go with it, regardless of how he looks. Women are very intuitive. If they sense you're genuine and kind, there's a good chance she could accept your offer. Not definite, but better chance than someone who comes off arrogant or boring.
i like someone that is genuinely interested in me. if i can actually have a good conversation and the guy be funny and respectful and i can tell that he isn't just scanning the room with his wiener for any piece of meat, then he will probably end up with my number for sure
If I find him reasonably attractive, he seems nice, and comes off as genuinely interested in getting to know me on the inside.
Neutral is fine. I've always thought about the types that I've been attracted to, but each guy has been different in terms of personality. As long as the guy is kind, sincere, and can come up to me in some way to even just say hi or stand beside me (shy guy) then usually my interest is peaked. It's not that hard, especially if i'm attracted. Just be a good person, and if both of you are attracted to each other and you are able to take the lead (from my experience, if a guy can initiate more often, im already interested. Shy guys who fade in and out are too tiring to deal with) then i think you'll be fine :)
-confident posture and tone
-eye contact with her lips
-be as funny as you can
-flatter her in a SPECIFIC way ("you remind me of that girl from thrones, the gorgeous blonde one. Are you english? god you're beautiful. what's your name?" vs. "you have beautiful eyes"
-buy her drinks or pay for her lunch. that would honestly make her wonder if you're some kind of knight in shining armor. Guys don't do that shit anymore
-be straightforward ("look, i know this sounds absurd, but I have to see you again. what do i have to do to get your number?")
I want someone nice and they should be able to make me laugh. Above all though they should be able to carry a conversation with me.
Just get a good conversation going and joke around a little but keep the conversation away from anything sexual but let her know you think she is attractive - after about 10 minute conversation thatnis going well (she is smiling and making eye contact and seems interested in what you are saying) then give her a compliment (eg your're beautiful)
We either click or we don't.
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