SO i wasn't the most experienced dude when it comes to girls and thats undestandable but then i met this girl she seemed nice, genuine, smart, cute and very similiar to me with very similiar priorities , however due to some issues and misuderstandings everything was over but we remained friends , she started changing into another person and doing weird things , i was sad even depressed for a while then when i found out how different she was i managed to overcome it and move on , we're friends now but i dont treat her the same or care as much anymore and its for the best, so i am here to help guys like me figure out if they're being used before getting too comitted to a realtionship so learn from my experience and enjoy.
how do you spot an attention seeking girl :
1-she takes and rarely gives, she asks for your help and compliment you on your skills and talents then asks for a favor even if it sounds simple or unimportant she is just using you.
2-very few girl friends and doesn't get along with most girls , she has mostly guy friends and guys around her, claiming they're less headache and drama than girls and that she's one of the boys and gets along with guys better and might even go as far as joking with these guys sexually , but the fact remains she likes the attention.
3-she obviously has a boyfriend or her eyes on someone or even both so at this point just cut the chase and leave her alone , dont be mean or anything... just leave her out of your dating circle and if she asks tell her you're not into girls who are into a realtionship.
4- if you ever get mad with her and start ignoring her , or if you're talking/flirting with other girls in her presencese she will be more willing to talk to you, be nice and get closer and try to make you like her again or try to get you away from these girls , but once thats achieved you're uninteresting... again , you're her ego boost so watch out for the signs.
5-the closer you are the father she gets no matter what you do or how you feel , she will always seem really distant no matter the good things you or how many times a day you make sure she's fine or the texts you send her , its all unimportant she will not give you any attention but will suck the attention out of you.