Most Helpful Girl
"when we hang out and get chatting they think I'm funny and smart"-- are you a mind reader? If you're asking them on purpose of course they'll tell you that you're a good guy, even if you're nothing special lol. And when you meet for the first time and start giggling at your jokes it doesn't mean that it's genuine.
And I think, that if you find the fact annoying that they like you, then you're either gay or you're trolling with this question.
Most Helpful Guy
Fuck brother, you are in nice guy mode and you need to start douching up seriously. What's even worse than not getting laid or getting a girlfriend until you 30 is some condescending bitch that will say "hang in there honey, the girls will notice you when you're older and we are more mature". Fuck that, fuck them. Get a book called "no more mr nice guy" by Robert glover. Then also get Neil Strauss "new rules of the game" those two books will sort you out.