Most Helpful Girl
Yes, you can. But not in as much as you claim. It didn't form your life, it just helped it for itself - in a way.
Most Helpful Guy
I think life has knocked you down enough times to where you have evolved into something new. Your no longer that little boy who cares about the world and a sissy. You now have confidense and give no fucks which is both very good qualities to have. Congratulations, on not letting you past with being bullied affect you now.