We end up attending the same functions - often unplanned. Several people have thought we were a couple and one person even said she picked up on chemistry between us, but I told her no, we're just friends.
Now he has met several of my female friends, which has been fine with me. In fact, I kind of put him together with a couple of them. He is very outgoing, cute, and a great dancer. They both like him. One of them is even his age and attractive.
The problem is that now I think I'm starting to want him for myself! A bunch of us went to a gala last weekend and then went to a private club for dancing. I don't know whether it's beause he requested and we danced to a romantic song I told him I think is sexy, or what, but for the first time in the months I've known him I've started thinking about him a lot this week! When one of our mutual friends told me he invited her to something he told me he's going to, for the first time I felt a little jealous. Now I'm finding that I want to go dancing with him again - and for the first time I want it to be just the two of us.
What's going on with me and what should I do?
- Nothing - you may run into him at a function and let things play out.
- Invite him to something and ask him not to bring anyone along - hel'll get the hint!
- Nothing - I snoozed, so I lose!
Most Helpful Guy
I suggest you figure out what you really want first, then decided what to do. It seems to me that your suffering from what economics calls "Positional good". In a nutshell, until someone else wanted this person, he wasn't good enough for you. That is a very bad way to start a relationship. Lets assume you date him, and thing go on for a very long time. How are you going to feel when he is "Yours", so to speak. Are you going to what to be with him when no one else wants to date him? Figure out what you really want from this man, then do what is right. If you truly want to be in a relationship with him, then do it, but if your only after him because someone else wants him, leave him be.
Most Helpful Girl
Nothing, let it go.