Most Helpful Guy
I'm in the exact opposite boat, I'm actually sick of being single. Don't get me wrong, being single and not dating does have its benefits, but it gets old after awhile. I've never never had a girlfriend or had sex. I've only been on ONE date in my life (and she told me to be "friends" after that.) I've had countless rejections too.
But I see your point of view here, although I'm not looking for anything serious or long-term.
Most Helpful Girl
I always find when you take a step back and focus on your happiness alone is when the right guy comes along. It always seems to happen when you're not looking for it.
I took a break from dating for nearly a year, and when I least expected it HE came along, by that time I knew what I wanted, I had boundaries set on what I would and would not be able to accept or tolerate, knew all my deal breakers and HE was everything I ever wanted and more, as loyal as they can get and treats me like I'm a precious gem.