I just started talking to this girl, but its the end of senior year and I have basic training and tech school this summer, so we want to hold off on a relationship. However, she said she wants to have a sexual relationship with a guy she has known for four years, because she promised him. She wants to do this, then pursue a serious relationship with me after tech school. Any red flags or am I over reacting?
Most Helpful Girl
Sounds like a red flag!0
Most Helpful Guy
Well she was open about it,
I have to give her respect for that.
And if you all aren't together till after tech school then anyone's fair game technically.
I would say it's a GREEN flag because she was open about that.0