This isn't to say women aren't like this too, I know they are. But it seems most of these people are men. I know so many single men who refuse to see it is their fault and they need to change, especially on little bit of time I've been on GAG here.
I hate to say it but my 24 year old brother is the same way. He's never had a girfriend/date and I doubt he's been intimate with a woman (which isn't a bad thing anyway.) However, he puts all the blame on women. He went to a Catholic Middle School and him and my parents agreed it was the girls fault why he couldn't meet someone. He went to a Public high school, didn't meet any girls, never had a Prom date or anything and he and my parents blamed it on the girls, saying it's "just high schoo girlsl" bla bla. In his undergrad at a college, he couldn't meet any girls, and my parents and him both agreed college girls are "stuck-up" and not mature yet. And what a surprise, he is now almost out of grad school at a DIFFERENT college and sure enough, him and his parents are bashing young women again. I used to feel sorry for him but I no longer do. He is arrogant, rude and not friendly. However, my parents, my other brothers and him all think all the blame is on the girls. He is the common doniminator, he is the problem and HE is the one with the issue. How can you meet thousands of girls at several schools and locations and get the SAME results every time?
My brother isn't the only one like this, I've met so many guys like this. What gives?
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Sounds kind of like my parents. They weren't really trying to blame it on women though, they just tried to manipulate me with that. "Oh, high school girls are like that just get good grades and everything will magically fix itself." It didn't "Oh college women are different go to college and everything will magically work out" it didn't. "Oh undergrad girls are all like that, go for your masters and the women will be different." Needless to say after years of the same bs from them I finally figured it out.
I think you should at least try to help your bro figure this out as well. Your parents sound like they are both very well educated, like mine, they think the end all be all to ALL of life's problems is more education. It worked out for them, they ignored everything and just kept going to school, and hey they met each other and it all worked out, so they think that if he does the exact same thing it will magically work out for him too. They are most likely wrong.
He sounds like a lucky man to have a sis who cares about him so much.2
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