I'm having serious problems with reaching out for the guy I like!! I'm so shy but he doesn't get it. He always text me and now I think that he is start to give up or maybe lost interest because I don't intiate contact to see him or talk to him, could that be the reason? He thinks he has to do all the work but would you give upon a girl if you had to or if she showed maybe too little interest, I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I haven't heard anything from him in two days and I'm starting to feel the pressure to text him before he moves on. He hasn't even look at my story on snapchat which he always does. He offered me to come over on Sunday but I never really answered so it's just faded. Should I be more forward, should I text him like right now?
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Have you told him that you liked him? Maybe he isn't aware, and maybe he's just as shy as you are. Giving hints will only get you so far. You need to be clear about your feelings.
Anyway, I don't like women who expect the man to always make the first move. I also think that a woman taking the initiative is very sexy. Giving "hints" is the quickest way for me to lose interest.0