How do I initiate 'the talk' in this situation?

We've been seeing each other for a few months.
I think it's too soon to be 'official', but in a few weeks he'll be travelling for a month with his friends.
I really like him and the thought of him getting with other girls makes me feel sick
I want him to be loyal to me while he's travelling but I don't want to tell him what to do. I wouldn't want to see him anymore when he gets back if he did.
I know if we have the official talk he will most likely say he's not ready, which I understand, but I don't know how to talk to him about this in a way that is relaxed and no pressure - because I want him to want to be loyal to me because it's more rewarding and because I already am to him.
I don't know if I've explained that badly but that's my thoughts.


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What Guys Said 1

  • What do you mean "The Talk" that I'm not familiar with?


What Girls Said 1

  • Why a few months is still not enough to be official? I will try to make it official

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