Just curious to know others experieince if any in a freinds with benefits type relationship? How did it turn out? Who ended it? Why'd it end? DId somebody develop feelings? I ask cause I've caught myself in a similar situation as of late and would like to have some perspecitve.
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They don't really work out in my opinion. Somebody may end up getting hurt or disappointed. One partner could be attempting to improve the relationship so it becomes more while the other partner may want to draw the line and keep it simply friends with benefits . Somebody that spends quality time with another person, especially with intimate relations, is bound to get attached and their feelings will probably grow as the amount of time you are friends with benefits progresses. Say your in a friends with benefits . y'all end up close friends and intimate and share stories and swap conversations and say she starts to actually like you. this may be out of her control, but some things u can't control. She could possibly start to gain a bigger interest with you and in the end when you end up getting a real relationship with a different person, your friends with benefits would be left hanging and feel hurt. or it could be VICE VERSA and you could end up getting very fond of her and she turns around and is interested in dating another guy and cuts ties with you. Have you seen the "Friends with Benefits" movie? I recommend it :)
In my personal opinion, even though you may make a commitment to be just friends with benefits with no strings attached. Somebody is bound to get hurt. I mean unless its sully for the sex only and their is no chemistry and no interest in relations with their personality then it may possibly work. But rarely have I ever heard of a friends with benefits working out like it was originally intended. I've always known somebody to get short handed and left behind as they started feeling some sort of a connection with their partner.
Sexual relations (if its good ;) ) will typically lead to a more emotional and personal relationship the more you share your physical interest with them. But if this is directed towards you and your friends with benefits I wish y'all the best of luck and it ends well for the both of you and nobody gets hurt :)0