So I was talking to this guy over texts for about 3 months. I met him twice in person. He's 24 I'm 17. Everything was going great till a few nights ago. I told him I loved him but then he told me we couldn't talk over text anymore because it was starting to get unhealthy because he was blocking me from a real social life. I tried to beg him to continue talking to me but he said, "Nah this is getting unhealthy. I will no longer reply to your texts. It will all get better in the long run". I sent him another text but he didn't reply. Yesterday I sent him two text messages telling him I was sorry for anything harmful I said and I don't understand why he's doing this. I also said that I was crying all day over him. But he didn't reply. I have been doing nothing but staying in my room and crying all day. What should I do now? Should I try calling him? Why is he doing this to me?
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From experience sounds like the guy just wanted to muck around text for thrills and flirt without it getting physical or actually developing into anything serious. That's the main reason he cut you off. Also you DEFINITELY scared him off with the 4 letter word. Since he being the older one in this situation he would have more experience and should've said it first. Also never play emotional since he didn't respond to when you told him you were crying that meant he didn't care. Your young you'll understand soon being with an older guy is tricky. I should know. Certain things you say and do and don't say and do.
The best you can do is give him an ultimatum either do is go back to how you two were which was just texting or let him go. Because guys like that ain't worth it. And as tough as it's gonna be for you just got to wait it out. Don't act needy guys get an ego trip over that or it will push him away even further and label you a stalker or insecure. Been treated like that too in my days.2