Whenever I'm with my group of friends they're all pretty loud and obnoxious and they're way prettier than me, I'm really shy, my friends always have guys talking to them and flirting and whatever and It kinda makes me feel worthless and ugly. I'm really nice and have a lot to talk about if a guy would start a conversation with me. But it Seems like guys are only interested in the pretty popular girls. Do guys even like shy nerdy fangirls?
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I like shy, nerdy girls better but they're just so damn hard to approach. They're always at home playing on games or reading a book or something.
Then in public they look unapproachable, like they don't want to be bothered. Only place I've ever been able to approach them is work..
I hate loud girls though, I'm naturally quiet and a bit shy myself and I just don't have the energy for loud girls, plus I've been hurt by them in the past.
Whether it's true or not for the individual girl, I always tend to think of the quiet ones as sweet, caring and generally nice to be around which I like and that attracts me. Plus their personalities are usually more compatible with *mine* (because I'm a quiet, shy, slightly nerdy, introverted guy like I said), but it won't be for all men.
I like them basically because they're more like me and I can see us working and me really liking them.
Just make yourself approachable, and remember a lot of your guy friends might fancy you so don't write them off yet. And if you're on daring sites actually respond!2