I'm seeing this guy. It bothers me when he doesn't keep me updated with plans. Like for example I invited him to do something and he said he might be able to, he has to see if he has to help a friend with something or not- but I haven't heard from him
Similar things have happened- he sucks at keeping in contact. Like its no big deal, but I'd prefer even a no to no contact at all.
I think it's rude and disrespectful but I don't know how to bring it up
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Well, it's a yes and a no.
You can't expect that he tells you about everything. That will just make you look insecure, needy, and make you come off to strong. NOT good.
But to not update you in the mentioned situation? Well, that would be reasonable to expect him to do. When was it you asked him, and at what time are you going to do the thing? That is relevant too0
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