Okay so I just want to start off saying that I attract all crazy men or weird men. It's not in my head, even my friends will say it.
1) when I went to college I kept to myself and didn't talk to anyone. I didn't want to either. Men didn't really approach me there either. Anyways out of college random men would approach me and tell me they know me from my college. I never seen these men before. Sometimes they would say they had class with me, but I never seen them in my life. Or they would just say they would see me. This hasn't only happened from the whole college thing though. Random men will know I'm friends with someone and say they seen me out with them. Again, why would that be someone's first comment. It's kind of weird to me.
Besides that men don't really approach me unless a random men makes some cheesy comment trying really hard to be really funny. I went to NYC once with an old friend of mine and she said men constantly look at me. I never told her my problems with me. I also never notice men smiling at men. I also got the same comment from my cousin and mom how everywhere I go men become obsessed with me. I don't get how they see that.
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There is a difference between getting approached and getting asked out. These guys are likely picking up from your body language that you don't like them so they leave before asking you out. Typically if a guy likes you he might approach you and talk to you for a bit. At that point he will be trying to get a feel for how you feel about him. If he get the feeling you don't like him, then he am just going to leave without asking you out.
A lot of girls never get asked out and don't realize they have guys approaching them all the time. When if fact they have been unknowingly rejecting men all day long. If you want these guys to ask you out then you need to learn how to show them you are interested by using the correct body language and tone of voice.4