Long story short.. Been seeing a guy for 2 months. He told
me straight up he was looking for a girlfriend. We see each other 1-2 times a week, go on dates and during the week we generally chill at his because of work the next day. We started sleeping together when we had the chat of him saying he wasn't talking to or interested in anyone other than me and things are great. Monday night I saw him and everything seemed Norma. He wasn't acting any different, was still loving, affectionate, told me how much he's missed me and we were chatting like normal and at the end of the night I noticed he was getting tired and I told him I would go and he told me to stay and lay with him a little while longer. We talk most days but he's not the best texter.. Some days he's a quick replier other days there's 4+ hour gaps in between the messages it just depends on what he's doing really but this week has made me wonder what's going on. I haven't heard from him so Wednesday I asked him how his day was and he didn't reply until the following night saying he was sorry he's just been smashing gym after work and passing out and then asked how my day was. I replied and haven't heard anything from him since it is now Sunday night.
Should i send a message asking if I've done something wrong? Should I just wait it out? Help!! How do I approach this? Not knowing what's going on is making me anxious. If he's not interested anymore I'd like him to tell me or if I've done something then talk to me about it. What do I do?
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hmmn im just assuming here but sounds like he just doesn't want commitment, he probably does enjoy being with you and all but he might be afraid to be committed but still some things dont really add up especially when he says he's on the gym and doesn't reply how is that possible? if it was me and im really interested in this girl id give her all my attention and I've there's really no excuse to not text back in the gym everyone carries their phoe all over now, and another thing is that he always says he passes out from sleep thats just odd, i can maybe also assume he's a player and has another girl around there and well since you and him already had sex well he's loosing interest now.. but my advice its that IF he does reply sometime back to you ask him straightfoward whats up? why he does what he does0