If you're on a dating site and send someone a message, is it worse to not get any response what so ever , or to get a message saying they're not interested?
- It's Worse to not have any response62%(10)52%(16)Vote40%(6)
- It's Worse to get the rejection message31%(5)35%(11)Vote40%(6)
- Other - Explain7%(1)13%(4)Vote20%(3)
Most Helpful Girl
Personally I say getting no response is worse but it depends on the individual. I've had guys verbally attack me for saying "Sorry, I'm not interested". I would prefer a rejection then a no response. Think of it as if you are actually in the same facility as the person. Speaking as a woman, if I walked up to a guy and said "Hey, what's up?" and he pretended I didn't exist that would hurt more then him politely turning me down. Sure both are either embarrassing or total downers but at least in the polite rejection they acknowledged you.0