First relationships for both girl/guys.
Do/did they last? If yes, why? If no, why?
What was yours like? What did you learn from it?
If it's still going, what do you guys have planned? :) Would love to hear your stories.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm still in my first relationship. We've been together for almost 3 years (I'm 19 now). I'm not his first girlfriend but he's my first boyfriend. I had never really cared about anyone else, the guys who would ask me out never really caught my attention, he was the first who could do that. I knew we were going to start a relationship from the moment we met! We just clicked and everything was perfect.
We're very happy and we seriously hope and think we'll be getting married. I always say it openly, my boyfriend doesn't. He's the kind of guy who's afraid of getting hurt and doesn't want to expose himself that much by saying we'll be together for the rest of our life... and I understand it. I've caught him saying things like "when we're old..." or "when we're 40 and have the money..." or "our son..." lol, so he wants to hide it but I know the truth: we both think we're going to be together for a lot of time.
Of course we have our ups and downs just like everyone else, but it doesn't matter because we care for each other too much to let stupid things destroy what we have. What we have is special and it's something I haven't seen in a long time looking around. I'm very positive about our bond.
Some people say first relationships don't last, that young people are inexperienced and need to look around before settling. But when you find love, that person you can talk to, that person you can have fun with, or cry with, that person who cheers you up when you're down, who always supports you in your life choices, that person who understands you and respects you, that person who is considerate of your needs, your wishes and your choices, first relationships can last a lifetime! I can't even imagine myself being with another man, having another man in my life, having another man kiss me. He is and will be my first and only one :)1