This guy friend of mine (who has been friendzoned) have been persistently nice to me even after I rejected him, got into a relationship, and intentionally ignored him during my relationship (due to jealous bf).
I moved away to another city a year ago and broke up with my ex a few months ago.
I talked to him throughout the past two years, and after I moved away, he sent things (flowers, small gifts) that would cheer me up and really cared about me unconditionally.
I don't know if I should give him a chance or not. I am not attracted to him, but I like being loved. I told him before many times to stop what he is doing, that I didn't want to lead him on, but he said he just wanted to me to be happy.
- End it ( cut him out of your life for his sake )Vote A
- Give him a chance ( pretend to like him even though its unfair to both...)Vote B
- Let him be ( maybe it will die off... after another 2 years)Vote C
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I have one question for you to help you out. I was in a similar situation once where a guy really liked me, but I wasn't attracted yet. Here is what will help you out, the answer to this question: "does the thought of kissing him REPULSE you?" If it doesn't, he is worth giving a shot. I gave a guy a shot I wasn't into at first, but the attraction grew so much the more I let him in and got to know him. However, if you give him a shot and go on I'd say at least five dates, and feel NOTHING still, then cut it off. But attraction can grow and wax and wane, and it's hard to find a guy who will treat you so well. It really is. If the thought of kissing him repulses you, you will never be attracted, so don't bother. I hope I helped! :)1