I seem to influence a lot of people I come into contact with? Should I be worried about this when dating?
Like the title says, I seem to touch peoples lives on a deep level. Soem examples: I moved coutries about 5 years ago (Right when I finished highschool). I had my group of guy friend and a group of girl friends. Even after 5 years, they seem to really miss me a lot and even still include me in their plans although Im in a different country. Some of the friends that are girls constantly tell me "How much I am missed in the States). Another example, From early childhood friends (in primary or whatever), They seem to still remember me even though I can't seem to remember them (I've moved around a lot ). My question is how significant is this trait when dating? Am i more prone to having girls being more attached to me? More prone to breaking their hearts and making them cry? I am naturally a deep person, as I've had not the usual life that most have had. Opinion?
Would you be jealous of someone who at a young age had a house, nice job, married and seemed happy? Is the "I want to focus on my career" excuse a cowards way of avoiding a relationship or a valid excuse? A guy I like is not willing to pursue me because of a driving distance of two hours. Bullshit or valid excuse? Would you date an accountant? Why do men feel they need to protect their girl?
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No it's fine. There is nothing to worry about. It's significant to some, others will be independent and not care or even notice.
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