I know I'm only 22 years old but, I believe in the old school way. I think men should make the first move because men are the ones that should do the chasing in my opinion. if a female see a man she's attracted to and wants his attention she is suppose to make her self noticeable so he can see her. Maybe even throw in some eye contact. If he finds her attractive then I think he should make the first move and go over there. Thats my opinion. When you watch the animal kingdom and they're doing a show on lions, the male lion always the one looking for a potential mate. He sees a potential mate so he approaches her. Now its up to the female lion to accept him or decline him. Men are naturally the hunters. What do you think?
- Yes men are suppose to make the first move.Vote A
- Nope. I don't care if I am the man, if she want some she need to come and get some!!Vote B
- I don't care that I'm a female, if I see a fine ass man you better believe I'm gonna be over there tryna holla!Vote C
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Who however is attracted to the other person should always approach. It doesn't matter if its man or woman. Whoever is the one with the romantic feelings should do it, because the other person is completely unaware of these feelings and trying to use subtle hints to get your feelings across to someone isn't always the right way.
If it was solely the man's job to approach then a lot of girls will be left out of the fray, because not EVERY girl is going to get approach, especially not always by a desirable guy. Sometimes in order to get something, you have to go out and get it yourself instead of one day hoping somebody will do it for you.1