First off, I'm a 19 year old girl that has never had a boyfriend. I've had guys ask me out but I have rejected them because I know they aren't going to be worth my time and will most likely waste it. I've been talking to this guy for about 3 months now and we've hungout a couple times. I really really like him and he has straight up told me he likes me too. I guess the only problem I would have with him is that he lives an hour away so we can't see eachoter often. Wellllll he started calling me "babe" and I don't know I felt kinda weirded out. you would assume that it would make me happy, and it does but it's more of a weird feeling. I asked my friend and she said because I've never had a boyfriend I might feel out of place and I do!!! I feel like since so many guys have screwed me over maybe this is me trying not to get too caught up with this guy. I guess it can just be a matter of time before I start feeling comfortable with saying things like that and being all lovey dovey? I also feel like no one is capable of ever liking me so that may also be an issue I need to work on. Sorry for such a long post but I just need advice. Like should I continue talking to him? Or is this a problem since I feel weirded out with love?
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Maybe you should talk to him and explain that you've not had a boyfriend before so you're going to have to take it slow in that respect. If he's a guy worth your time he will understand, and hold back on the lovey dovey things until you're ready though. I don't think its a problem though, I'm also 19 and not at all into love. All of my friends in relationships think that there is something wrong with me, but at this point in my life im just not into love. I don't have a problem with it. I've liked guys before, and it doesn't really change it. I'm currently just getting to know a guy, who i really like, and maybe he'll change it. But I guess only time will tell.2