Would love some opinions from guys who used to be insecure but are now doing great when it comes to dating women.
GaGers, do you think trial and error is the best way to get better with women?
What Girls Said 2
because every experience is a learning lesson.1
What Guys Said 7
Definitely not. You will be wandering in the desert for forty years.
Ask what they like. Touch them different ways and ask how it feels. One of the best ways to understand a woman’s needs is to (actively) watch them masturbate. Read anything authoritative on the subject of female sexuality (not Cosmo). Ask the women on GAG to tell you what works for them and to be specific about pattern and pressure, etc.
Finally, forget EVERTHING you ever saw in a professional porn video. Most of those women are just dying for it to be over so they can go get drunk and make real love---often with their girlfriend!0
Within reason it can help you determine what you want. I wouldn't recommend going around slapping random butts to figure out women won't like that but I would still recommend dating different women to see who you click with.0
I still am totally insecure - I find the random approach works for me - Think of something else and don't try so hard with the girl0
well its definitely a way to gain experience and learn quickly.0
Try to talk with them and be kind, funny, and act interested in them because if you don't talk with them they would think the worse of you if they don't know you since all they can see is your appearance xD0
No, but go for it.0
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