Most Helpful Girl
No. You always have the right to say no. You could be in the middle of sex, and decide you don't want to anymore, and say no. It is your body, therefore your right. He could be your husband, and he does not have an automatic right to your body.
It is manipulative, dismissive, and wrong for him to tell you otherwise.
In the future, I would communicate that it is not any lack of attraction, but you're just not in the mood, or whatever is your truth. Most importantly, communicate your boundaries. If he cannot respect them, then I am sad to say you need to move on.
Cherish yourself and your needs, okay? You don't have to have sex with anyone if you do not want :)1