im 22. I've never really attempted to get a girlfriend. I've had crushes like anyone else. But if shuts shrug it off. I admit I was a bit awkward before I graduated high school but eventually got some people skill from a not giving a f**k attitude. Should I be looking at my age. I mean I just imagine spending money on dates movies and gifts. I kinda have other agenda rather then wasting money on a girl. Maybe it's selfish? I don't know but I certainly want to buy the things I want before I have to support an expensive date I'd imagine. Maybe I just don't have a social circle by the means to meet women. Just contemplating but would like to know what anyone thinks about my situation.
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I mean, if you don't feel ready you shouldn't do something you don't want to do. If you would much rather focus on you, on your career or hobbies, you should do what makes you happy.
If you go into dating and not wanting it, I imagine you might have a bad experience since your mindset already says "expensive date, I don't want to do this". I would just focus on other things for now and enjoy life. :)
Maybe after you've had your time, for however long as that may be, you might be ready to date.0