I had a blind date with a girl. We went on two dates then messed around. Had sex at my place later. She invited me over one night saying she's home alone but I'm not interested.
When we've gone on dates she never acted that interested. She's never paid, offered, or said thank you. She's nice, but that's it.
I feel like it was a mistake to have sex with her. She's friends with some of my other friends that are girls and circle of friends.
Anyways she texted me saying she doesn't know what to do, she thought we were having a good time.
I am also having some problems in my personal life, so don't need girl drama right now.
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Don't leave her hanging wondering. That's got to be a horrible feeling. Wondering if she said or did something wrong. y'all made it complicated by having sex, if you weren't really into her than you probably should have avoided that.
But you can't change that so I would say just tell her. You have mutual friends so you don't want it to be awkward. Just tell her you didn't mean to lead her on, but that you're not in a place in your life where you want a relationship right now. Or maybe that you don't see any chemistry with you two. Just be respectful, say your piece and let that be that. If she gets angry or upset at least you were honest and didn't continue to see her when you you knew you were no longer interested. She'll eventually come around and understand.0