History: I have a boyfriend and there was a guy that used to be all over me, and when he got drunk he tried to get physical with me so I pushed him away and cut all contact with him.
today (which is a month later) he contacts me out of the blue and does some small talk and then asks me to hangout with him so I replied saying that "I'm still dating______", and he goes "calm down I just meant as friends not like we're gonna do anything" so I said "he wouldn't appreciate that so I can't" (he as in my bf).
before this we just did some small talk like he asked how I was doing and stuff..
did I handle this the right way?
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your boyfriend sounds scared and insecure that you may like this guy back. lol at him telling YOU to cuss him out. if some guy was hitting on my girlfriend id let handle it and if he keep pursuing id cuss him out MYSELF. its a pusy move telling your girlfriend what to do. sounds like you did you teh right thing0