Okay so, I met this guy in college. He was always taken, and so was I so we never saw eachother as anything more then friends. Last year we both went through a breakup at the same time, and started texting. We became really close and talked about everything. We came up with a plan to be fuck buddies. A plan we thought would work for both of us given neither of us wanted a relationship. (We are both in careers now and both busy) We've slept together a few times now. When I started getting deeper then friend feelings for him, I told him. He turned me down and said he wanted to be friends and was happy with the way things were. It's been a few months since that talk, we still sleep together, talk all day everyday, always know what the other ones doing. We know things about eachother nobody else knows about us. I feel really connected to him. So much so, I'm turning down dates and opportunities with other men. I'm not even interested in anyone else, do I break it off?
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You should seriously think it other if he has no intentions of taking your feelings seriously, because this clear that although he might value as a friend, he is still using you for sex, so to keep your friendship going you should consider whats more important, ie the friendship or a relationship that he controls?, x1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE