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Put yourself out there means to flirt and talk with some girls a little. It is basically a way of saying let it be known you are single and available so other single ladies can evaluate you and decide rather or not they are interested enough to date you. The reason why people tell men that is because women are not usually likely to approach you or start a conversation even if they are single and attracted to you. So, if you want to get in on the action then you have to make the first move buddy.